There is no doubt that new media and technology
bring a lot of benefits to the modern world. We can communicate with beloved
people who are very far using skype, MSN and social networks, we can share the
ideas and opinions on any subject we want, we can find any data we want and
enrich our scope using Wikipedia and surfing the web, not talking about the
advantages of online shopping, entertainment and emails. Each person uses the
Internet differently. Some people need it for their works or for keeping in
touch with friends and relatives who are far away. While for many people the
time spent in front of the computer is productive, for others it can negatively
affect their everyday life. They start to neglect their studies, work and
relationships, not being able to keep the balance.
Have you ever feel that internet takes too much of your time? Do you find it difficult to control and limit your time online? Do you find yourself lost your previous hobbies and interests because there is no time for it because of the Internet? Having problems with timelines? What about social activities? Have you ever replaced hanging out with friends on playing World of Warcraft? Do you feel that you use Internet to escape from your problems in real life? Do you think about checking your facebook when you are offline?
Have you ever feel that internet takes too much of your time? Do you find it difficult to control and limit your time online? Do you find yourself lost your previous hobbies and interests because there is no time for it because of the Internet? Having problems with timelines? What about social activities? Have you ever replaced hanging out with friends on playing World of Warcraft? Do you feel that you use Internet to escape from your problems in real life? Do you think about checking your facebook when you are offline?
If the
answer on most of these questions is “yes”, you may have the symptoms of
Internet addiction. In 2006, a Stanford University study fоund that оne in eight American adults shоwed signs of Web addiction. [1]
In 2008, an Oregоn
psychоtherapist Jerald
J. Block argued in the American Journal of
Psychiatry that Internet addictiоn shоuld be
included in the next Diagnоstic and Statistical
Manual оf Mental Disоrders, the bible of the mental health
industry.[2]
The most common Internet addictions are
cybersex, online gambling, and cyber-relationship addiction. Cybersex addiction
can affect the real relationships, emotional conditions and even work, because
nobody likes people downloading and watching pornography for hours. Gambling has
always been a problem, but the Internet gambling is more accessible, therefore
more dangerous. Online casinos are open 24/7 for anyone who has an Internet
access. Video games addiction considerably interferes with daily life, making
the addicted isolated and concentrated only on the game achievements, losing
social and family contacts. Online relationships can harm the person, as the
fantasies can do nothing with reality. Moreover, the addicted is trying to
spend more time with the online friends, because in real life he is lonely, but
meeting those online friends in reality can be disappointing as some people lie about their age, job or
even gender. That is the large field for crimes like pedophilia or violation.
With the development of Wi-Fi connections in
public places, iPhones and Blackberries the access to the Internet is possible
almost everywhere. Many people find it
hard to control their Internet use in these circumstances. Who is in the focus
group, predisposed to this type of addiction? First of all, kids and teens are
in the group of risk. Adults who tend to be depressed, stressed, anxious,
unhappy, and solitary or suffer from other addictions are also likely to be
at-risk.
Consequences
- · Depression
Spending
less time with family and friends provokes the feeling of anxiety and
depression. In this case being online enhances the feeling of isolation and increases
depression.
- · Social relationships
When a person, especially a teen is addicted to
the Internet his social life is impacted. Normally, they neglect sports
activities, lose or gain weight, do not attend the social or family activities,
lose friends and acquaintances.
- · Grade dropping
Study shоwed
that exam results of thоse whо use
Facebook and Twitter while studying, even in the backgrоund, were
20% lоwer than nоn-users.
What is more, the excessive time
spend in front of the computer might replace sleeping time which causes fatigue
and leads tо bad performing in class.
Kids today do not play enough, do not socialize
enough, do not spend enough time outdoors on the playground, do not spend
enough time with their parents and grand-parents, do not draw, paint, imagine
and explore enough. My generation had the childhood full of outdoor games, communication
and nice time spent with family. We didn’t have cell phones, iPads and Internet
and I think it’s the best benefit we could ever have had. This kind of
childhood creates imagination, deep-thinking, creativity and confidence. At the
teen age, when we started to use computers, it all changed, but at least we had
a nice childhood :)
Solutions
Many people can deal with their addictions if
they find a substitute for it. Go out with your friends, read a book, practice
some sports, go for a date, enjoy the nature, try something new, travel - just
do something! Think about how many things you are missing out while you
constantly check your email, Facebook, Twitter and email once again. Use
Internet only as a tool for searching information and maintaining the necessary
connections with your friends who are far away. Keep your Internet use under
control and don’t forget that life is beautiful.
We should be responsible with regard to internet usage. As a subscriber of an Australian broadband service provider, I must see to it that my kids won't be addicted to it.
ReplyDeleteHi there. I am doing my dissertation on internet use and symptoms of depression. I was wondering where you got the first picture in this post from, or if it's yours, I was wondering if I could get permission to use it in my dissertation front page?
ReplyDeleteRegards, Jennifer.